Gift for Mom: Silk Scarf Gift Ideas She Will Keep

Trinh Hai

Quick answer: a 100% mulberry silk scarf is a gift for mom she can wear for years and keep for longer. For most moms, start with a 26 or 36 inch square: it works at the neck, in the hair or on a bag. Every Folk Form order arrives in a gift box with a story card, and US shipping is free over $90.

Orange and dark green Dragon Dreams silk scarf gift set for mom in a gift box
A 26 inch Dragon Dreams scarf in its gift box.

What makes a silk scarf a good gift for mom?

A good gift for mom is something she uses, not something she has to store. A silk scarf does not need a size or a guess about taste. It goes with a coat, a blouse or a bag she already owns, and it gets softer and more hers with every wearing.

Folk Form scarves are 100% mulberry silk, with yarn from Hangzhou, at 16 momme, about 69 g/m² (supplier specification). The edges are rolled and stitched by hand. The designs are hand-printed in Vietnam, and each one comes from objects of the Ly and Tran dynasties, so the gift carries a story you can tell her.

Which size scarf should you choose for mom?

Size Best for
22 inch (55 cm) A bag handle, the wrist or a small neck knot
26 inch (65 cm) Hair and neck equally. The easiest first scarf
36 inch (90 cm) Tying many ways: neck, head wrap, shoulders
44 inch (110 cm) A shawl or wrap, and the size that shows the whole design

Not sure? Choose 26 or 36 inches. Our silk scarf size guide shows each size on a model, and our guide to wearing a silk scarf has the first knots to try.

Which design should you give her?

Each design carries a wish. Pick the one that fits her.

  • Dragon Dreams carries four dragon heads turned toward a lotus-shaped leaf. The dragon is a wish for a good year and a mark of achievement. A fit for a mom who has just reached a milestone.
  • Phoenix Dance shows a phoenix perched on a Bodhi leaf among royal clouds and ancient lotus. The phoenix is a sign of peace and prosperity.
  • Lotus designs draw on the lotus ponds of the royal court. The lotus stands for character kept in hard times.
  • Mandarin ducks in a pair are a wish for a lasting marriage, a thoughtful gift for parents or an anniversary.
Red Dragon Dreams silk scarf, 44 inch square, draped over the shoulders
Red Dragon Dreams, a 44 inch square worn over the shoulders.
Pink Phoenix Dance silk scarf, 36 inch square, tied at the neck
Pink Phoenix Dance, a 36 inch square tied at the neck.

What arrives in the box?

Every order arrives gift boxed. A scarf comes folded in tissue in a rigid gift box, with a printed story card naming the design and its dynasty, an illustrated styling guide and a care card. A small square of silk from the same bolt is included, so mom or you can test it with a thread over a flame. Prices are never inside the parcel. Add a short message in the order notes and we write it by hand on a card at no charge, or send the parcel straight to her address. See our guide to wrapping a silk scarf as a gift if you wrap it yourself.

Brown and blue Lotus Serenade silk scarf, 44 inch square
Lotus Serenade in brown and blue, a 44 inch square.

When should you order for Christmas?

For Christmas delivery in the US, we recommend ordering by November 27. Orders ship from Hanoi, are processed in 1 to 3 business days, and arrive in 9 to 15 business days after dispatch. We pay the import duty on US orders, so nothing is owed when the parcel arrives. If it is not right for her, we offer a gift exchange on US orders under $100, and returns are open for thirty days. Details are in our shipping policy.

Where to start

Frequently asked questions

What is a good gift for mom that she will actually use?

A silk scarf, because it goes with what she already wears. A 26 or 36 inch square is the easiest size to wear at the neck, in the hair or on a bag.

What size silk scarf is best for a mom?

Choose 26 or 36 inches for everyday wear. Choose 44 inches if she likes a shawl, and 22 inches for a bag handle or wrist.

Is a silk scarf a good gift for an older mom?

Yes. It needs no fitting, it is light, and a design with a meaning, such as a phoenix for peace or a dragon for a good year, gives it a story she can share.

Does the scarf come gift wrapped?

Yes. Every order arrives in a gift box with a story card, a styling guide and a care card. We can write your message by hand on a card at no charge, and ship it straight to her.

When do I order for Christmas delivery to the US?

We recommend ordering by November 27. US shipping is free over $90, import duty is paid for you, and delivery takes 10 to 18 business days.

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